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Top: Evil Twin @ Market HQ   |   Necklace: House of Harlow 1960   |   Bison Skull Ring: Wild & Free Jewelry   |   Arm Chains:  Backstage  |   Bag: Chicwish

We've all had those moments when you look back and ask yourself "What was I thinking?" Whether it's fashion choices or boyfriends - haha - there will always be things you can't escape from your past. Some friendships and relationships are just snapshots in time.

There are people who will only ever know a fragmented version of you because the situation or relationship only allows you to show half of your colours. And so time and distance goes on and they will never see your full spectrum... And you will remain a faded imprint on their memory.

Some people will cement you as your teenage self or secure you in your early twenties, thinking you'll always be that way. And that's sad because it just means that they're stuck there themselves. But I bet it's those very people that played the biggest part in making you who you are today. If you were bullied, if you were heart-broken, if you were ever made to feel worthless... You can thank those people for pushing you into uncomfortable places that forced you to soul-search. I've been there.

But real friends love you like family - it's unconditional. They listen to the problems without rolling their eyes. They reach out to you when you're alone. They ask if you're OK. They stand by you when you're taking risks. They back you up. And they allow you to grow. 

So hold on to the ones who really care, in the end they'll be the only one's there :) I love my peeps.

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Revalations on Dream Catching.

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Triangle cuff by Lotus Mendes

The designer, Victoria says if you wear the triangle pointing away it flows your energy to others,

 wear it pointing towards you if you need a little "me" energy.

 Skull Tank designed and made by me you can get one here

Skirt & Belt by Minty Meets Munt thanks to Mother & Father PR

Leather Stud Cuff & Cross Choker worn as belt accessory both by How Typical of Metal c/o Mother & Father PR

 

Photography by Blair Dwyer (my boytoy) & Natalie Leung of Lucy and the Runaways / Shoot Assistant Margaret Ye of La Petite Mademoiselle

There's something indescribable about the feeling you get when you face your fears front on. 

Most people think you've only got two choices:

Stand still like a deer in the headlights, blinded by the unknown

or

Run away.

BUT you could opt for choice number 3 - just get your shit together and charge right at your fears. Because they're just in your head. You made them up!!  I'll tell you a secret - there's no such thing as good or bad things in live. There's just things in life. It's up to you if you wanna cry about it or not. I choose or not.

So if you have some secret little thing you've always wanted to do - fucking do it! The truth is nobody else cares about what you're doing anyway they just care about themselves. So make yourself happy and in turn everyone will be happy. Don't waste your life dreaming about things that [you think] have passed you by - just take each moment for what it is, good, bad, ugly, amazing... AND CATCH YOUR DREAMS. 

Oh, and NEVER let your teachers, friends, parents, associates or "people with experience" EVER tell you that you won't make it. Start listening to the people who have done what you want to do - I bet they each have a completely unique story of how they made it - and you will too.

RANT OVER.

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This post is dedicated to my Dad.

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